so…
I have been gone for quite awhile.
I have been happily blissful. I am dating an amazing guy and things have been going so very well... easy-peasy if you will. I have come to believe the saying “when it’s right, it right.” Things have been carefree for about 3 months now. Our relationship is simple and enjoyable and fun. Out of the last 75 days we have spent 50 of them together. That is over 66%... CRAZY!
It has been wonderful and we both admit we have had a blast, but I think reality is catching up to us. We both have neglected our individual “chores” and have decided we need to get a hold of them before they get out of control and really cause an issue. So… after three months of almost non-stop time together we are going back to date nights. Planning fun things instead of just assuming we will be doing things. I think that three months is and isn’t a long amount of time. I believe it is a long enough amount of time to know that you really care for someone and want to continue spending time with them and I also think it isn’t a very long time into a relationship to get too complacent to where you get in a rut.
Three months should still be fun, and be filled with more dates and plans than just days spent together. I think it is actually kind of fun to learn through your relationship, take a little step back if you need to, and make sure it stays easy-peasy and fun.
